(6/2/09): My ex-girlfriend and I have been broken up for 6 months now and she called and wants to get back together now, except that I found out she has fucked 2 guys in the 6 months that we have been broken up, and gave one of those guys a blowjob too. I didn't want to know any of this, but she told me anyways...And she mentioned that the condom broke with BOTH guys (although she got tested and said she's okay). So, should I take her back after 6 months, knowing that TWO other guys have fucked her since she's been away from me? When me and her were together, I devirginized her and she had never been with anybody else. Now I would have to live with the knowledge that two other guys have had sex with her and I am no longer her only sexual partner.
What do you guys think? I can't seem to get my mind past it, imagining these other dudes fucking her. Am I a pussy for taking her back now that two other guys got a piece of her, or should I just move on and accept her back? Even though it wasn't "cheating" it feels like it might as well have been.